Just look back and see how far you have come!
I mean, there was a time (or should I say a few) when home did not feel like home. In a relationship loving someone so bad that I forgot to love myself too!
In true Kyle Minogue style “tears on my pillow, pain in my heart, caused by you” (If you were a child listening to this one, nice to have you here sis)
When in reality, it was me!
I was in denial, blinker’s mode fully activated, and although it could be considered as a cool copeing mechanism in the moment, what happens to everything and everyone else around you, I tell you what, they get to miss out on the real you!
It took approximately 18 years “on and off” to accept that living like this in no terms was acceptable.
Once we are able to accept what is happening we then are able to find better ways to manage it. Sometimes, it can be a tough pill to swallow.
We are no longer that child, where we dunk biscuits in our hot chocolate before bed, or that teenager that could stay up late and be fully functioning the next day, or the young woman who could drink a Jack Daniels & Coke and all it would take is to eat some greesy bacon and eggs or left over kebab in the morning and it was like nothing happened the night before.
To fully thrive in our wilderness years, we need to let things go to bring in the NEW YOU!
We need to ACCEPT CHANGE and understand that the end of our reproductive years does not mean the end of us as women. In fact, it’s just the beginning of something new!
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